Thanks you all so much. I feel like we get the best advice from people we don't actually know for some reason. I know I know the whole thing was suspicious with his "ex" girlfriend....which is why I am so glad I didn't feel comfortable having sex then. And yes, I do know it should have been on me also to have condoms but I'm not even going to lie here. I have only been with two other people and one was someone I was with for 3 1/2 years so, I'm a little behind in some things. One of my girlfriends told me the same thing "why didn't you have any!!?" On the other hand though, another guy I know told me if I had had them I would have just looked slutty because girls who have them obviously have a lot of sex. Double standard still alive haha. But I do think I should have them if I don't want to run into roadblocks however, maybe it's for the best since dude is clearly cheating on someone along these 5 months. I really want to confront him about the really good points you guys made but if it's via text or voicemail I kind of lose the power of seeing a reaction. Would it be kind of messed up to wait until I see him in person to call him out or a)is that dumb since I still want him anyway for whatever stupid reason and b)will he show no valid reaction anyway? My one guy friend has been telling me all along wait until you're in person to have these important conversations/ confront his ass but the problem has always been I can never talk about too much that's serious in person because he is a "sweep u off your feet" type person and it's so unfair. But I am smiling now so I just want to tell him he's immature but I don't know how/when. Or is silence better? It has gotten to him before it drives him nuts. And Bill, no not BK for his job but a chain tool store lol so no office to go to. Thanks again everybody!,
how to bust a liar, vewen,